You’ve saged your house. You’ve prayed. You’ve meditated. You’ve sent love into the universe like spiritual confetti. And still, your beloved has not shown up.

So let’s ask the question no one wants to say out loud:
Where is this so-called “divine partner” anyway—and why are they taking so long to find your fabulous self?

Here’s a truth you might need to hear today: they’re not lost. They’re waiting for you to issue the cosmic invitation.

Yes, really. And no, it doesn’t involve a dating app. We’re going quantum.

The Universe Takes You Seriously When You Do

If you’ve ever tried calling in “the One,” you know that manifestation in the relationship department can feel a bit like waiting for your Uber to arrive during a rainstorm—with no Wi-Fi.

But here’s the deal: you’re not waiting. You’re preparing.

In Bring in the Beloved, I lay out a series of practices that don’t just help you wish for your beloved. They help you signal the universe in ways that are unmistakable. You’re not just “available,” you’re activated.

And after months of retrogrades, emotional U-turns, and cosmic curveballs, this is the month to do it. Energetically, you are in a window of massive alignment. The skies are saying yes. The timing is now. Let’s get you matched with your highest vibrational partner—because heaven knows you’ve been patient.

Step 1: Treat Your Journal Like It’s Tinder for the Divine

No swiping needed. Just a blank journal, a good pen, and a willingness to be radically clear about what you want.

Your “Beloved Journal” is sacred. It’s where you begin writing letters—not to the universe, but to the person you are calling in. And here’s the trick: write in the present tense.

Let your emotions run the show. Write as if you are apart for a moment, but already in love. Already known. Already chosen. “Darling, I’m so happy we’re together.” Then pause, listen inside, and hear the response. “I’m so glad I found you.”

Why does this work?

Because you’re not just dreaming—you’re seeding the quantum field. With every word, you are shifting from longing to belonging. You’re writing from a timeline that already exists, and that makes you magnetic.

Step 2: Your Bedroom Can Block You. Yes, Really.

Look around your space. Is it couple-ready, or does it scream, “party of one with commitment issues”?

Time to Feng Shui your future.

• Put a “2” on the back of your bedroom door. (Thank you, Glynis McCants!) It tells the universe: “We are a couple. Not a maybe. Not a someday.”
• Clear out half your closet. Make space. Literally.
• Balance your bedside tables and lamps. No more lopsided lighting!
• Solid headboard? Good. It symbolizes support in your relationship. If your bed’s leaning like your last relationship, we need to fix that.

You are inviting someone into your life. Make room like you mean it.

Step 3: Your Past Doesn’t Belong in Bed with You

If your energetic field still smells like your ex, your future beloved might be holding their nose.

That’s why we start with the “Letting Go of an Old Relationship” Meditation. (It’s a free download, no excuses.)

This isn't about pretending your past didn’t happen. It’s about choosing you in the now. Releasing the energetic tethers. Honoring the lessons and setting the table for something new. Something holy. Something… finally aligned.

As one of our Bring in the Beloved success stories shared:

“The person I was married to was no longer, if ever, that person. I downloaded the meditation and said, ‘What the hell, let’s do it.’ My true beloved found me shortly afterward. It is heaven on earth.”

Need we say more?

Step 4: Sacred Ritual Isn’t Woo—It’s Strategy

This isn’t just about getting a journal and fluffing your pillows. You’re about to create a real ceremony that honors the divine aspect of your request.

You’ll need:

• A crystal (size doesn’t matter—just make sure you love it)
• A fabric pouch (non-see-through)
• A written note of your heartfelt desire
• Your hands, your breath, your willingness to believe

Let your soul speak. Let your heart lead. The ritual isn’t for theatrics—it’s a form of energetic precision.

Step 5: Lighten Up. Your Vibration Depends on It.

One of the biggest mistakes people make when manifesting love? They get serious. Too serious.

Love is joy. It’s curiosity. It’s surprise. If you want to call in your soulmate, be the energy you want to experience.

Laugh more. Dance around your kitchen. Let yourself be ridiculous. Turn on music that makes you feel like you’re already in love. Set a place for two. Toast to the unknown.

The universe isn’t judging your readiness based on your checklist. It’s responding to your frequency. So be in love now—not just with the idea of them, but with your own radiant self.

Your Beloved Is Already Looking for You

Here’s the secret most people miss: your divine partner is also manifesting you.

You are not asking for too much. You are asking for what’s already aligned.

But here’s the catch—you must believe it. You must prepare your home, your heart, your headspace like someone who knows they are worthy of sacred partnership. Because you are.

So journal like they’re reading it. Decorate like they’re arriving. Meditate like you already feel them beside you. Use the tools. Trust the process. Laugh when it feels too quiet. And do the ceremony when your heart says yes.

This isn’t about finding love. It’s about becoming the love that draws in the perfect mirror.

And when they arrive—and they will—don’t be surprised if they say:
“Took me a while, but I could feel you calling me the whole time.”