What If Your Soulmate Is Also Procrastinating?

What If Your Soulmate Is Also Procrastinating?

Maureen J. St. Germain Maureen J. St. Germain
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Let’s be honest.

You keep saying you’re ready for love. You light candles, whisper affirmations, and occasionally cry over romantic comedies as if it were part of the ritual. But when it comes to actual preparation, your "divine partner welcome plan" is mostly invisible, like them.

Here’s your gentle wake-up call: Valentine’s Day is just 6 months away.

Six. Months.

That’s 183 days to shift your energy, align your home, update your journal, clear the ex’s hoodie from your closet, and signal to the Universe that yes, you’re not just ready to meet your beloved, you’re prepared to host the love of your life.

So, the question is:

Are you manifesting love, or are you just flirting with the idea of it

Your Future Valentine Deserves an RSVP

It’s easy to fall into magical thinking when it comes to calling in a soulmate. You think, “Well, the Universe knows what I want. I’ve thought about it. I’ve vision boarded. I’ve whispered intentions into my tea.”

Adorable.

But also, insufficient.

Manifestation doesn’t work on passive settings. The Universe doesn’t just deliver UPS-style love packages to vague spiritual vibrations. It responds to action. Specific, intentional, grounded steps that say:

“I’m serious. I’m ready. Let’s do this.”

Waiting for the “One” is Not a Strategy

Let’s be real. Most of us think we’re ready for a relationship, but haven’t taken one real, tangible step toward welcoming another soul into our day-to-day life.

Your kitchen says “solo dining.”

Your closet says “there’s no room for you.”

Your heart says, “Sure, come in!” but your energy says, “Just don’t stay too long.”

If you’re reading this and laughing uncomfortably, it might be time to do something bold, something a little mystical, a little practical, and a lot more effective than scrolling through dating apps while eating leftovers.

This is your invitation to take the first real step. It’s time to Bring in the Beloved.

Why Now? Because the Energy is Ripe

Astrologically speaking, the back-and-forth cosmic drama we’ve been in is finally starting to stabilize. Energies are smoothing. Pathways are opening. The internal “pause button” that’s been stuck for months is easing off.

Translation?

Your manifestations are finally getting traction.

So what better moment than July 3, the halfway mark to Valentine’s Day, to commit to love?

Imagine sitting across from your beloved in six months, clinking glasses and saying, “Can you believe we found each other right on time?”

It won’t happen by accident. It will happen because you chose today to do something different.

The Work Isn’t Hard. It’s Sacred.

This isn’t about frantically dating or rearranging your furniture (though maybe do move that weird lamp). It’s about engaging in a clear, sacred process that tells the Universe: I’m not just hoping anymore. I’m anchoring.

And no, I won’t give you the whole blueprint here (where’s the fun in that?). But I will tell you this:

•    You will need to prepare your space.

•    You will need to prepare your energy. 

•    You will need to let go of the past, energetically and emotionally. 

•    You will need to take symbolic action.

What kind of action? Well, let's just say there's a certain ritual that involves your future partner, a crystal, and something fragrant and divine from Mary Magdalene’s channeled blends… but I’m getting ahead of myself.

Let’s Talk About That “Energetic Hoarder” Problem

You know who you are. You’ve got a drawer of keepsakes from exes “just in case” (in case of what? You start a nostalgia museum?). You still hear their voice when you meditate. You still mentally replay that one vacation where everything felt like a rom-com, until it wasn’t.

Here’s the truth: you cannot bring in a new soul contract while clinging to an expired one.

No judgment, just clarity.

Releasing the old doesn’t mean dishonoring your past. It means finally being free from it. There’s even a meditation for this (spoiler alert: it’s free), and yes, it works.

But Seriously… Valentine’s Day

Six months goes by fast. (Remember January? Feels like last week.) The same way you prep for a vacation, an interview, or a dinner party, you can prep for your divine partner’s arrival. Think of it like spiritual event planning.

  • Do you want to be caught with the wrong energy, wrong wardrobe, and one sad pillow on your bed when the Universe says, “It’s time”?
  • Or would you rather greet your beloved like you knew they were coming?

You’ve waited long enough. You’ve done the internal work. You’ve learned the lessons. Now you get to align your external reality to match your inner readiness.

Let’s Do This, Together

Bring in the Beloved isn’t just a practice. It’s a container. A set of tools that helps you:

  • Clarify what you want
  • Let go of what’s blocking you
  • Align your home, body, and soul
  • And most of all, take grounded, joyful action

If you're ready to go beyond intention and into true preparation, this is the sign you've been waiting for.

Final Thoughts (and a Gentle Nudge)

Love doesn’t just happen. It’s invited. Called. Magnetized.

And sometimes, it’s hilariously delayed because the invitation got lost under a pile of unsent journal entries and expired intentions.

So here’s your nudge:

Make July 3 your personal "Halfway to Valentine’s Day" love activation day.

Set the tone. Make the shift. Do the ritual. Prepare the way.

Because six months from now, your beloved might just raise a glass and say,

“Thank you for not waiting another year.”


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